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Thursday, 26 November 2009

  • The past few days have kind of run together.

    I have been running around quite a bit, trying to get things pulled together for our Christmas nursing home distribution and getting volunteers set up for our Giving Tree at the mall this weekend.

    Sadly, this year the majority of the nursing homes are asking us to just drop the gifts off, and not go room to room to visit with patients. This makes me sad....I SO love visiting with the seniors, sharing a gift, and....if I'm lucky...getting the opportunity to get some of them talking so I can hear their stories and learn about their lives.

    I finally lined up juuuuuuust enough volunteers for the Giving Tree this weekend to meet the mall's requirements....but next weekend is going to be a problem if I don't find more volunteers. I really do have it so much easier than most Corps do - we only have to "man" the tree on weekends, instead of 7 days a week like some others do. But, I am still a little stressed.

    God has dropped some blessings into my lap this week. My checkbook that had been missing for 6 weeks was finally found. I had left it in a bank, and they had kept it in their safe until they could find me (long story as to why it took so long....but some very persistent tellers weren't going to give up!). We've gotten more than enough volunteers, every single night, for kettle counting. God has heard some silent prayers of mine and has shown me again and again that He cares for me, in the most simple of ways.

    There are still things that are stressing me, with no solutions coming soon, as far as I can see. I am faced with "people problems" that are very uncomfortable and sometimes even painful. There are always holes in leadership in the congregation to look at. There are people who are mostly pleased with my efforts in ministry (mistakes, failures, and all.) And then there are others who are.....NOT, and never will be. I am trying not to let these things eat at me, and some days are better than others.

    Today is Thanksgiving. I am missing my family terribly. I slept awful last night and woke up feeling gross. The good news is, we aren't going anywhere or having anybody over. So, I can stay in my pajamas for as long as I want, there is no set time to get the food in the oven, I can start another good book (I finished "Water for Elephants" and it was OUTSTANDING!), and maybe watch a movie. So, today should be okay now that I think about it!

    Blessings on you, my faithful friends.

     

Sunday, 22 November 2009

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    Water for Elephants (Thorndike Paperback Bestsellers)
    By Sara Gruen
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    This afternoon has been a MUCh needed time of rest!

    God miraculously opened doors at the last minute, softened some store manager's hearts, and we were able to get more kettles out than we had thought we would during these first few critical days. That was a relief!

    On the first night of kettle counting (Friday), I had to juggle being at the Corps with our counting crew, and getting Johnathan to and from his High School's football game (his team made it to the quarterfinals, and the band was on duty). It was a crazy night!

    Saturday was completely nuts. Ron and Johnathan went to Seattle for two days to be a part of a music festival (Ron was invited to play percussion and Johnathan was invited to play 2nd cornet) which left me here to conduct a funeral on my own. I won't go into details, but the funeral was a really big stretch of my faith, patience and endurance. At one point I was so close to tears I nearly lost my cool! The turnout was far more than we had the capacity to deal with (260 people), but we survived and, most importantly, the family was pleased with how things turned out.

    Kettle counting went well Saturday night (I LOVE our group of volunteers from the congregation), but things got hairy at the end when the financial report did NOT match the amount of money we had ready to bank. It took nearly an hour to figure out where the mistakes in our record keeping were. I was exhausted when I finally got home with David at 10:30 pm.

    Today I conducted our Church services without Ron (he and Johnathan are due home sometime around midnight tonight), and it went okay. Attendance was actually fairly good, and I preached a decent sermon. As always, I went too long but at least I felt really good about the material I had studied and was presenting. It was a bit of an insult to have a couple who was visiting for the first time stand, get up, and leave just 10 minutes into the sermon. I have no idea if they just didn't like our congregation PERIOD....or if they were offended there was a woman in the pulpit, or what! I have visited other congregations before where I really wasn't enjoying the service, but I would never, EVER get up and walk out unless something was being taught that was heresy. Seriously....HOW RUDE! Sigh. Oh well. I'll be surprised if we ever see them again.....

    But, on a side note, someone from the congregation who is VERY knowledgable in Scripture and has preached in our absence before, called me at home later in the day to tell me the sermon was really good. So, at least I know I wasn't totally off base in my teaching.

    David had been invited to go see "New Moon" with one of the families in our congregation, so after Church they all went out to lunch and to the theater. I closed down the Church building, headed home, watched a rented movie of my own (that wasn't all that good, unfortunately), read a little of this novel my sister lent me (it's REALLY well written and very interesting!), took an amaaaaaaaazing 2 hour nap, welcomed David home from the movies, and now I'm here on the computer while watching David work on a homework assignment.

    This week is going to be crazy. I am desperately behind on some things (getting in touch with the activity directors of our local nursing homes to line up distribution of Christmas gifts to residents in just 3 weeks, and getting my volunteers lined up for the Giving Tree program at the Mall).....but I'll choose to be stressed about all of that tomorrow. For tonight, I am relaxing and getting recharged after a pretty exhausting few days.

Thursday, 19 November 2009

  • Ron and Johnathan were in Seattle last night for a music rehearsal and didn't get home until 1:30 am.

    I was up at 3:45 am so I could be in downtown Portland, OR by 4:45 am for their metro kettle kickoff. We are in a different State, and a different TSA Division....but since ALL of our media comes out of Portland, OR it made sense to be a part of their celebration and hopefully get Vancouver's name out there. It was dark, WET, veeeeery cold (and I got desperately lost trying to find where the Army had their spot set up....I came thiiiiiis close to just turning around and going home!). But, I ended up having a good time.

    After an hour back home to grab some coffee and a quick nap I went out to get my volunteer and we did our nursing home ministry. We conducted 2 Worship services and had a time of amazing connection and blessing.

    I met Ron for lunch at the Corps, then came home to spend a couple of hours with Johnathan. I hadn't seen his face for more than 24 hours (Ron picked him up from school yesterday on the way to Seattle, they got home in the middle of the night, and I wasn't home when he went to school today). It was nice to see the boy!

    I caught another 30 minute nap (I was SO tired!) before driving to the Corps to pick Ron up (he is leaving his mini van there along with mine to be used for kettles - we've got loaners from the Ford dealer), and then home for a quickie dinner.

    Then, off to Johnathan's High School for a VERY nice band concert!

    Tomorrow night is the first night of kettles. Praise God, things are off to a better start than we thought they were going to be. Up until this week we thought we might be limited to only having ONE kettle out a night until December. YIKES! Usually, we have 16-20 out until the day after Thanksgiving, then we add another 10, and then December brings the full 88-100 kettles a night. But, this year with stores deciding to not allow kettles at all, and then losing some of our locations as stores go out of business, things were looking kinda bleak. Anyway, I am thrilled that God is providing!

    Ron and Johnathan will be in Seattle Saturday and Sunday (they are part of a special music weekend) which leaves me to handle a funeral and committal service of Corps member on Saturday along with our second day of kettles, as well as our regular Sunday Worship - all while trying to also take care of David. I have to preach two mini sermons on Saturday and a full sermon on Sunday. I'm kind of stressed out - but I also have a deep sense of peace, so I think it will be okay in the end.

    Not much else I want to waste your time talking about. Just know I'm well, I'm continuing to recover physically after nearly 2 months of on and off illness, and I'm continuing to recover spiritually after a really rough patch of things that stretched me as far as I think I've ever been forced to go.

Monday, 16 November 2009

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    Quentins
    By Maeve Binchy
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    I haven't been exercising much this past week. Not enough sleep and way too much stress.

    But spiritually, I've been getting a workout.

    The past couple of days, Oswald Chambers and I have been getting our "devotional groove" going. Okay...so he's been dead for more than 90 years....but his thoughts have been challenging me greatly.

    It's fascinating to me that things written nearly 100 years ago but a mere man, are exactly what I need to hear TODAY.

    Yesterday was the reminder to not let the obsession with someone else's spiritual progress get in the way of developing your own. Although as a minister I kinda HAVE to be aware of the spiritual progress (or lack of) in the individuals of my congregation....it can't ever be at the expense of my own.

    Today was the challenge to display God's glory in my every day, human life.

    Yep. Stuff I need to know.

    My work laptop is dead. This is the 2nd total hard drive crash in the one short year I've had it. What a piece of junk! It's been packed up and sent to Seattle where our IT guys will either fix it, or replace it. In the meantime, I've got no computer at work, and it's definitely going to be an issue with all of the Christmas related business I need to attend to!

    Today we picked up the loaner vehicles our local Ford dealer is so generously providing Ron and I for the Christmas season, so our mini vans can be used full-time for kettles. I won't lie....I am SO spoiled with this year's car. I got a Ford Explorer, and it's beautiful! For the next 8 weeks I will ride in luxury, and I don't intend to take it for granted!

    This weekend Ron and Johnathan will be away, so I not only have to preach on Sunday but I also have to conduct the funeral for a VERY well loved Corps member on Saturday. I'm trying to avoid panicking, and so far it's working moderately well. I'm actually more nervous about the sermon on Sunday than I am the funeral....

    I am glad that I ended up doing the grocery shopping this afternoon rather than my usual Friday morning. I ran into someone I hadn't seen in a while, and it was a real treat to be able to stand in the aisle and talk for more than 1/2 hour. I like being able to touch base and find out how people are.

    Okay. Lots more I could say, but I promised to reign myself in on my posts.

Saturday, 14 November 2009

  • As I sit here in the very early morning hours of a Saturday, I reflect on a most difficult week.

    Lots of painful learning experiences.

    Lots of confronting issues head on.

    Lots of insomnia.

    Lots of questions about what God has in store for me next.

    Today is my Home League's first Fall Bazaar in the time we've been here. I'm very nervous about how it will turn out.

    Prayers would be SO appreciated!

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